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Avoiding hurt feelings and/or angst

Someone we know who resides in an HOA shared this way of saying something, with the goal of avoiding hurt feelings and/or angst.

As he was heading out for a walk, a group of people seeking to share their religious beliefs were going door-to-door in the neighborhood. A couple of people in the group walked up to our friend, wanting to talk religion.

Our friend said: "I have other beliefs that don't focus on religion."

The point was made, carefully and gracefully.

So often in communication -- particularly HOA communication -- making points carefully and gracefully is important in avoiding hurt feelings, angst and -- equally important -- confusion.

(Do you have questions about HOA communication? Contact us at hoastrategic@gmail.com)

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